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I've been doing the Artists way again since January this year (slowly but dedeicatedly) and am still SO bad at artists date - I think I've been on about 2?! Why is it so challenging? I just don't know what to I want to do.

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I don’t do this, but I like this thought and will. I do find grief seems more present if I’m not working, cooking/cleaning, socializing or otherwise occupied. A movie? That’s a big date...I just feel like two hours by myself would be indulgent. Though writing that makes me sound ... I dunno, too much. Thanks.

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Artist Dates sound neat, and I had forgotten they were in the Artists Way. I do solo stuff to get inspo but never schedule it in—and often feel like I am “wasting” time. I will try to be more intentional about setting one. Good idea!

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I try to take Artist Dates often. I have two boys in school and I don't work outside the home, so that makes it much easier (although I am in an online program for grad school which keeps me plenty busy!) I find that if I dedicate one block of time per week that is automatically scheduled, I'm much more likely to go on an Artist Date. Typically for me, it's midday on a Friday for 2 hours or so. I usually don't know what I'll be doing until the day of or the day before, but it's been a life-giving rhythm to automatically have that time set aside. Everyone's circumstances are different, though, so I hope you find something that works for you!

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Your first artist date sounds so great--I love that joy for you! And I really enjoyed The Plot, a delicious treat to watch it unfold and guess at the next plot twist. Will be curious to hear your experience with it.

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